Whisper positive affirmations in the ear of your lover while you are in high states of erotic excitement—like when you’re belly-to-belly and working each other up into a cock-fucking-pleasure frenzy, or even while you’re passionately fucking his ass! The key is to whisper these affirmations—or say them out loud—while in the throes of erotic ecstasy. These are extremely powerful prayers, stated as if they already happened, i.e.. “Your fuckbuddies are magical lovers. We’re nourishing your heart and spanking your hot fucking balls to excite the living fuck out of you, because excitement nourishes the body and feeds the soul. You’re remembering all that you’ve learned on your own, doing the self-love exercises over the past few weeks. It’s synthesizing in you. Hot assfucking is healing, synthesizing, and helping you to re-member…” You might also experiment with saying the affirmations out loud for YOURSELF while you are stroking your cock and massaging your own body, head to toe to asshole.