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HOLY FUCK--an excerpt to excite our porn-saturated imaginations

Posted by Brad Amberheart on April 25, 2019 at 10:25 PM Comments comments (0)

I was literally inside of him for an hour and half or more. Wild joyous buttfucking got interspersed with complete stillness. At times, there was no movement other than the rise and fall of our synchronized breathing. Once, I guided him to see the ocean, the warm ocean, rising and falling gently, at dawn…

Stillness came so full-on that it was clear and evident to me that a reconfiguration was happening. So grea...

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Posted by Brad Amberheart on April 25, 2019 at 9:45 PM Comments comments (0)

Enjoy this spoken-word affirmation I created today,


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A client came to me the other day with...

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Learning to Cherish Life (Even When it Sucks)

Posted by Brad Amberheart on March 14, 2019 at 10:15 AM Comments comments (0)

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I'm a Tantrica.  What that means is that I treat everything in my life as an experiment.  Today, I would like you to join me in a brand-new experiment:  Listen to this soundtrack from YouTube while you read these words, which I wrote while listening to the same thing you're listenin...

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"Why do People Have SEX?"--A Deeper Exploration of what Tantra Might Really Mean

Posted by Brad Amberheart on February 26, 2019 at 10:05 AM Comments comments (1)

Pacific Coast, Oaxaca, Mexico--a memoir of divine ecstasy

"Why do people have sex?"

I was shocked to hear these words come out of my own mouth.  Frankly, I was shocked I could still speak...surprised to hear my own voice at all.  After all, I had l...

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The LIFE without END

Posted by Brad Amberheart on February 19, 2019 at 8:50 AM Comments comments (0)

Santa Maria Tonameca, Oaxaca, Mexico

I was up before the sun.

Nothing could keep me from leaving my bed behind

leaving behind a fitful, restless night

filled with anxiety

of wanting to be more in life

of wanting to finish ever...

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Dirty Underwear

Posted by Brad Amberheart on February 17, 2019 at 8:55 AM Comments comments (0)


Mexico City, Feb. 16, 2019

What I loved most about him was his fetish for tight binkini briefs...

Or...wait...let me start over...

What I really loved about hi...

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Rev. Norm Self on Sex, God, Orgasm, & Death--live interview

Posted by Brad Amberheart on August 4, 2018 at 3:10 PM Comments comments (2)

HUMOR is one of the most vital tools for bringing human beings to enlightenment.  I have found teachers who are HUMOROUS to be among the most effective, life-changing influences in my life.

I ran across this shocking interview with an 83-year-old man who recently came to fame as the "World's Oldest Porn Star".  Laugh your ass off as he gets interviewed by Natasha, a Russian whore while she's live on assignm...

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Lone Hunters: a Story of the Never-ending Search for Sexual Satisfaction and Fulfillment

Posted by Brad Amberheart on August 2, 2018 at 4:05 PM Comments comments (0)

Gay Men are still searching endlessly, everywhere for great sex. Have we found it?                                     A Message of Hope by Brad Amberheart

Multi-orgasmic whole body orgasmic sensation is generally bypassed….


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Sex Magic Tip #2

Posted by Brad Amberheart on July 10, 2016 at 12:30 AM Comments comments (1)

Gay Sex Magic Tip #2

Continue to practice blessing people you meet at social functions, online, in bars…When approaching men, especially in a potential “cruising” space such as a bar or an erotically-charged online hook-up site or app, continue the experiment of sending love and affection to the men you see there, without expecting any specific results (ie. without the expectation that you’...

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Sex Magic Tip #1

Posted by Brad Amberheart on June 7, 2016 at 2:25 PM Comments comments (0)


Whisper positive affirmations in the ear of your lover while you are in high states of erotic excitement—like when you’re belly-to-belly and working each other up into a cock-fucking-pleasure frenzy, or even while you’re passionately fucking his ass! The key is to whisper these affirmations—or say them out loud—while in the t...

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