BRAD AMBERHEART
Sacred Intimacy * Tantric Coaching * Erotic Magic for Men
TANTRA for PORN STARS
a guide for erotic dancers, male escorts, and erotic performers
photo by Irwin Fayne
What is Tantra?
Tantra is an ancient spiritual tradition which helps us get in touch with our true purpose. Any true Tantric practice will help us gain insight into who we are, why we're here, and how we can make life more fulfilling for ourselves, other people, and our world as a whole.
What does Tantra have to do with PORN?
Tantra can be applied to any activity. Tantra isn't just about what we do--it's more-so about the way we do it. Tantra is about finding the balance between overt action and relaxation, hardness and softness, boldness and tenderness. Tantra makes for great cooking, beautiful art, and great sex! So naturally Tantra makes for great porn!
How is porn that's created with a Tantric approach different than any other hot fuck scene on film?
Filming porn with a Tantric approach is an experiment which has never been done until NOW! The results are just starting to be known. We're noticing some pretty amazing differences between this type of erotica and the "standard" porn. The main differences we're seeing are that models seem to show more expression with their bodies, faces, and voices. There seems to be a true connection between the guys in the films. We're seeing guys that are having fucking hot sex with lots of buttfucking, sucking, cum and even kink--just like you would expect in porn--only these guys actually are having sex with their WHOLE BODIES, not just their cocks and holes.
Recently, while preparing to bring some innovative tools to a porn set in Amsterdam, I made a list of differences I see between porn that's made with a Tantric approach and the porn we're used to seeing. Some of the porn we see out there is pretty hot! Lots of it is not! What makes porn HOT, and what makes it...not?
STANDARD PORN SCENE
AVOIDANCE OF EYE CONTACT.
One or both models seem distracted, avoiding eye contact.
ALL ABOUT COCK & ASS. Top, if he’s fucking, only touches the bottom’s to hold his feet in the air, or otherwise to spank that ass! Otherwise, the main contact is cock-to-ass or cock-to-mouth. It’s really all about hot cock and ass.
REPRESSED VOICE or ROUTINE FUCK LANGUAGE.
One or both models are often silent and even appear to be biting their lip and holding their breath. Sounds and especially language follow "standard porn language" (see below).
SERIOUS fuck-faces.
HOLDING BREATH. Models frequently hold their breath, especially when it looks like they’re just about to cum. Also, in “hot porn” it often looks like the bottom’s just “taking it” and trying to get through it. We don’t see him breathing.
JACK-HAMMER SEX: Pounding that ass, on and on, without any ebbs or flows or variety in the action. This can look pretty exciting...sometimes.
STANDARD PORN LANGUAGE. Models frequently use dick-throbbing, ass-tingling (1st chakra) words which are meant to excite men to the core while jacking off to porn, such as “FUCK YEAH! FUCK THAT ASS! I LOVE YOUR BIG COCK.”
CUM SHOT MEANS IT'S OVER. One or both models shoots a big fucking load and the scene ends within seconds
AVOIDANCE OF EYE CONTACT.
One or both models seem distracted, avoiding eye contact.
ALL ABOUT COCK & ASS. Top, if he’s fucking, only touches the bottom’s to hold his feet in the air, or otherwise to spank that ass! Otherwise, the main contact is cock-to-ass or cock-to-mouth. It’s really all about hot cock and ass.
REPRESSED VOICE or ROUTINE FUCK LANGUAGE.
One or both models are often silent and even appear to be biting their lip and holding their breath. Sounds and especially language follow "standard porn language" (see below).
SERIOUS fuck-faces.
HOLDING BREATH. Models frequently hold their breath, especially when it looks like they’re just about to cum. Also, in “hot porn” it often looks like the bottom’s just “taking it” and trying to get through it. We don’t see him breathing.
JACK-HAMMER SEX: Pounding that ass, on and on, without any ebbs or flows or variety in the action. This can look pretty exciting...sometimes.
STANDARD PORN LANGUAGE. Models frequently use dick-throbbing, ass-tingling (1st chakra) words which are meant to excite men to the core while jacking off to porn, such as “FUCK YEAH! FUCK THAT ASS! I LOVE YOUR BIG COCK.”
CUM SHOT MEANS IT'S OVER. One or both models shoots a big fucking load and the scene ends within seconds
EVOLUTIONARY PORN SCENE
EYE CONTACT.
Models make lots of eye contact.
WHOLE-BODY TOUCH. Models touch, caress, lick, and excite each other, all over, especially while fucking and sucking.
NOISE!
Once and for all, this is a great opportunity to show audiences - via visual and auditory impact - just how much the authentic expression of NOISE enhances whole-body sexual fun, even for porn models.
LAUGHTER, FUN.
In contrast to the “serious” fuck-faces of porn, these models will actually find themselves laughing, even while fucking. Is it possible? Fuck yes!
CONSCIOUS AWARENESS OF BREATHING. The new ecstatic version of porn show us how the HOTTEST assfuck scenes actually have moments when both guys stop what they’re doing, lie still, and breathe deeply together, even while sweating with hearts pounding…we even get great close-ups, like of one model pulsing his dick inside of the other, even while lying still.
NATURAL EBB & FLOW - hot and heavy to slow and deep. Sex with a natural flow, with whole-body action rather than cock-and-ass focus, can lead models onto an endless wave of orgasmic bliss. These models just forget about performing, while a talented cameraman captures true sexual authenticity for the world to see.
FILTHY, EXCITING VERBAL meets LOVING AFFECTION. Models intersperse hot, nasty, wonderful sexual language with words of affection, affirmation, & appreciation, such as “Your body excites the fuck out of me. I love you from the fucking core of who you are. You have everything you need to live your life to the fucking fullest, you hot, nasty, sweet fucker!”
AFTER-GLOW is THOROUGHLY ENJOYED. The scene continues for at least a minute or two or three after the cum shot. Models enjoy eating cum, savoring cum, writhing around in cum, and overall enjoying cum while laughing, sharing, or even crying because they’re so emotionally open, connected and appreciative of what they’ve shared with each other (and the world).
EYE CONTACT.
Models make lots of eye contact.
WHOLE-BODY TOUCH. Models touch, caress, lick, and excite each other, all over, especially while fucking and sucking.
NOISE!
Once and for all, this is a great opportunity to show audiences - via visual and auditory impact - just how much the authentic expression of NOISE enhances whole-body sexual fun, even for porn models.
LAUGHTER, FUN.
In contrast to the “serious” fuck-faces of porn, these models will actually find themselves laughing, even while fucking. Is it possible? Fuck yes!
CONSCIOUS AWARENESS OF BREATHING. The new ecstatic version of porn show us how the HOTTEST assfuck scenes actually have moments when both guys stop what they’re doing, lie still, and breathe deeply together, even while sweating with hearts pounding…we even get great close-ups, like of one model pulsing his dick inside of the other, even while lying still.
NATURAL EBB & FLOW - hot and heavy to slow and deep. Sex with a natural flow, with whole-body action rather than cock-and-ass focus, can lead models onto an endless wave of orgasmic bliss. These models just forget about performing, while a talented cameraman captures true sexual authenticity for the world to see.
FILTHY, EXCITING VERBAL meets LOVING AFFECTION. Models intersperse hot, nasty, wonderful sexual language with words of affection, affirmation, & appreciation, such as “Your body excites the fuck out of me. I love you from the fucking core of who you are. You have everything you need to live your life to the fucking fullest, you hot, nasty, sweet fucker!”
Who's making this kind of porn anyway?
Davey Wavey worked with a team of Tantric sex coaches--including Ian Ellington, Brad Amberheart, Jason Tantra, Finn Deerhart, Jallen Rix, Andres Cordero, and JoJo DeRodrigo--to produce the world's largest library of gay erotica created within the context of ecstatic sexuality, authentic man-to-man action, and--ultimately--Tantra. To watch over 150 exciting, innovative, and fucking FUN erotic films devoted to ecstatic, authentic male sexuality, CLICK HERE.
Brad, if you were going to offer one bit of advice--the most critical bit of advice you could think of--to an adult performer or male escort, what would you say?
I would say the best bit of advice I could offer would be to devote your sexual pleasure to a purpose. Whether you're with a lover or a client or in front of a camera, the secret is to hold some intention in your heart. Your first and fore-most intent--before you think of any others--is to affirm that this sexual encounter will bring health and vitality to you and your partner(s). Say it to yourself: Everything I share with this man here is bringing health and vitality to him, to me, to all the people we love, and to this world. If you're having sex on camera or in a live show, silently say to your own heart, "What I'm doing here is of maximum possible benefit to me, the man/men I'm with here, and everyone who sees!" If you find it too hard to do this in the situations you're in, it might be time to affirm--every day--"Every encounter I engage in is bringing health, vitality, and maximum possible benefit to me, to all of the people I love, to this world". Watch how the people and situations who show up to meet you start to shift to accommodate your reality. True magic begins with holding your dream and vision, and watching how situations and people show up to match that heart-centered dream which is most TRUE to who you are and why you're here.