BRAD AMBERHEART

Sacred Intimacy * Tantric Coaching * Erotic Magic for Men

WHAT is TANTRA?

TANTRA is a lens through which we can view the world.


When we view our world through the lens of Tantra, we learn to treat life as an intriguing experiment, guided by our CURIOSITY and sense of PLAY.


My teachers taught me that PLAY is at the core of Tantra.  


Without play, there is no Tantra.  PLAY releases us from the chatter of the mind, and opens us to RECEIVE information and knowledge which no one could ever teach us.

WHEN WE PLAY, our mind gives up.  Busy thoughts and constructs take a back seat, and in their place comes what we call an "AHA!" moment.

This AHA comes when the mind is void and free from thoughts...when we are willing to patiently wait...and watch...what happens.


This emergence of knowledge from the void is the main reason people meditate, but let's not forget...even walking can be a meditation, and yes--so can PLAY...


I've introduced people from all walks of life to Tantra, but my primary focus is on teaching men who have sex with men how to bring the inspiration of TANTRA into their SEX.  


Sexual FUN is one of the most joyful, delicious experiences human beings get to enjoy!  My 30+ years as an ecstatic, joyful, uninhibited sexual being (starting all by myself in my bedroom at age 14) have taught me how to DOWNLOAD the information, knowledge, and wisdom I need to inform my life and find my way.  Many teachers from many traditions have helped guide me, but what all gifted teachers have in common is that they teach us how to DOWNLOAD and EMPLOY the unique set of gifts which are OURS to share with everyone.

There is a special place where heightened arousal, deep relaxation, and multi-sensory activation meet.  This place is what I call Tantric Sex.

Quiet, still moments--when we take time to patiently breathe, settle into deep connection, and eagerly observe what happens--are the birthplace of insight, creativity, and yes--spontaneous arousal and FUN!  These men enjoyed a 5-day retreat with me devoted to exploring Tantric eroticism.  While we were at it, we also co-created inspirational erotica in film.  Photo courtesy of Himeros TV.

Gettin' Soulful & Kinky with my BF, July 2018.  

Some of the most potent moments of clarity in my life have come in moments when I LET GO of the busy mind, and surrendered into states of whole-body excitement, pleasure, and pure FUN.

I'm now in my 15th year of actively teaching men how to fully engage in sexually-ecstatic pleasure, and how to let that ecstatic pleasure be their vehicle for connecting with their source of vision, gifts, and self-healing.  I prefer working 1-on-1, body-to-body, but I also teach individuals, couples, and groups remotely.  To learn more about my 1-on-1 sessions and where I'm offering them, CLICK HERE.  


If you want to learn more about groups I teach online and in person, the best way to find them is to go to Tantra4GayMen, where you'll not only get to see the groups I'm organizing, but you'll also get to see what all of my colleagues and friends are doing, all over the Gay Tantra world.  OoooYEAH!  See you soon!

LEARN ABOUT TANTRA while you DRIVE, SLEEP, COOK, EXERCISE, or FUCK!

Top 7 Audio Podcasts 
for sharing the best things I've learned about Tantra...with you!

Enjoy listening to these while you drive, work out, cook, clean house, or relax!  They're all amazing resources and completely FREE!

THE SACRED SEXUAL HEALING PATH
an interview with Brad Amberheart  
Sex & Intimacy Coach Ben Lawson interviewed me for his podcast, Tantra Punk, in Spring of 2020.  What he brought out of me was the full, unabridged truth of how I found Tantra, and why I chose to devote my life to teaching men the joys of sacred sexuality.
  (Click below to listen.)

THE PRINCIPLES of TANTRA
with Swami Ravi Rudra Bharati.

My colleague Adam Bee interviewed my teacher, formerly known as Rudolph Ballentine, to affirm many of the Truths I hold central to Tantra, including the reality that Tantra is as diverse and colorful as the people who teach it.

CLICK ON RUDIGI'S PICTURE BELOW TO LISTEN to the INTERVIEW 

 

MY FIRST TANTRA TEACHER WAS MY GRANDMOTHER
an Interview with Brad Amberheart by Brian Piergrossi Podcast

Brian Piergrossi, international mindfulness teacher, interviewed me for his podcast in Fall of 2019.  This interview--with a hetero-identified man who used to be my roommate--reveals some of the most profoundly-radical truths about my Tantra path, including the fact that my first teachings of Tantra came from a traditional Southern Baptist upbringing.  

Click on the image of me in my underwear to learn what my straight roommate and I discovered about Tantra together.

A PANDEMIC of LOVE
with Jason Tantra

I interviewed my beloved friend and respected colleague, Jason Tantra (founder of the world's first conscious gay dating app, Tantra4GayMen) at the onset of a global pandemic and asked him the burning question, "What does Tantra have to say about the current global situation we're in?"

CLICK ON JASON'S PICTURE BELOW & find out what we DISCOVERED together.

The Native Sweat Lodge
Back to the Womb--a Story from the
HEART of TANTRA

The 7th Episode of Brad Amberheart's Gay Tantra Podcast

I spoke THIS story into a mic after a joyous sexual session with my lover in Feb. 2020.  The story marries SEX and SOUL, and it became episode 7 of my podcast series, Gay Tantra.  

Walk with me as I pick up a hitch-hiker and discover the connection between ancient earth-based spirituality, Tantra, & Coming Out of the closet!

THE HEALING POWER OF PLEASURE
My esteemed colleague, Adam Bee, interviewed one of my most influential (and FUN) Tantra teachers, Jay Craver, of Seattle, in his podcast, "The Sacred Erotic Podcast".  

CLICK ON THE PICTURE OF ADAM (left) & JAY (right) to listen to this extraordinary interview devoted to the "Healing Power of Pleasure"

WHAT IS TANTRA and HOW GAY IS IT?

Join me, Brad Amberheart, in the tradition of satsang, as I lead a group of 8 men to collectively discover what TANTRA really means to us...