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Sex Coaching, Sacred Intimacy, & Gay Sex Magic

Asheville, NC, USA + Worldwide



I’ve devoted my life to finding every way possible to turn more men the fuck ON and--ultimately--create a world where horny, hungry MEN can find joyful, fun sex partners and live sexually-thrilling lives!

I've worked with thousands of men 1-on-1. I’ve facilitated intentional sex-play workshops at Tantra festivals from Hawaii to the UK. I've studied and collaborated with many great pioneers in the Tantra world, including Rudy Ballentine, Margot Anand, and Jason Tantra. I’ve also worked as a Tantric Sex Coach on 10 professional studio porn sets, and have helped create over 120 groundbreaking gay erotic films in collaboration with Himeros TV.

I could tell you a lot about the many lives I've lived and what I've done, but what feels most important right now is to share the depths of my heart with you, and to let you know why my life's work feels so vitally important right now...

Hi, I'm Brad!

If I could tell you one thing about me that I would really want you to know, but that might surprise you, it might be this: I have used sexual pleasure as a vehicle to connect with other realms of understanding since I was a teenager, masturbating by myself. I feel that many of my greatest Tantra teachers lie within these bones and this body, gifted to me by my ancestors, and my greatest desire is to teach other men to access this power.

And...if I could tell you one more thing about me that might surprise you, it’s that I cry every single day of my life at some point during the day. Why? Well, there’s a lot of sadness in the world, that’s why! My experience has taught me that the more deeply I can touch the depths of both personal and collective-societal grief, the more capable I become of touching new heights of euphoric sexual bliss.

I’ve worked with men more than 20 years to cultivate the art of transformational sexual pleasure! I’ve had a fuck-load of fun discovering how extended periods of whole-body sexual pleasure can connect me with my most passionate dreams and visions. I’ve found that we don’t have to go to sleep to dream! In fact, I've even taught porn stars on a film set how to "Dream While You Fuck".

On August 9, 2022, I spent a glorious afternoon fucking the living daylights out of a man (much to our mutual sexual joy and ultimate satisfaction) only to watch as he released wave after wave of repressed grief during our ecstatic joy-fuck. Together, even while we fucked joyously, we mourned the loss of his lover, his mother, and the inevitable truth that the only "constant" in life is change....

That night, my friends gathered around a fire in the back yard to share our gratitude for summer and the lives we get to live. I told them that my life's purpose had been made clear that day. "I'm here to hold men in my arms while they grieve and simultaneously writhe in euphoric sexual joy". We celebrated what it means to know who we are and why we're here...

While I spoke those words, my mother died at her home, 250 km away. I had loved her so very much, and even though she had been in delicate health for some time, the sudden departure was unexpected. My path of grief was deep and very powerful. In fact, my grieving gave birth to these words I'm birthing right now, my new website, and a renewed purpose in being alive.

Reclaim YOUR Sexual Pleasure for Transformation and Healing!

The energy field of whole-body cathartic erotic and sexual pleasure is a place in which we spend far too little time. Our lives, it seems, have not been structured in such a way that we get to spend much time in this divine place.

What would happen if we could spend more time there, in that place of whole-body cathartic erotic pleasure? My theory, based on experience, is that when we find ways to stay in that energy field for extended periods of time, we release traumas which no longer serve us and free our bodies to run a type of blissful energy which is kin to laughter and is called transformational erotic bliss

Ready to Cum Out and Play?

Here are some important questions to ask yourself...



Are you a man who is ...

READY to open the pathways back home to a deep sense of who you are and why you're here?

ALREADY on a PATH of awakening to your purpose?

IN EROTIC SERVICE to other men?

READY to merge your beautiful sexual expression with your gifts as an intuitive and a healer?

AWARE of the presence of something bigger than you when you're having sex?


3 Easy Steps to Start Your Adventure:

Click on one of the links below.

Pick the Experience That Excites You the Most.

Follow Links to Fill out My Questionnaire!

Greetings, Lover!

I’ve helped thousands of men, all over the world, for more than 20 years, to awaken to the full enjoyment of sexual and erotic pleasure by way of group experiences, videos, 1-on-1, and couple's sessions. I've worked with men of virtually every body type, age, race, and cultural background imaginable.

I lead by way of the body and the heart. My life's purpose is to help guide men deeper into their sense of purpose by way of whole-hearted expression and ball-bustin' hot sexual FUN! My favorite tools are prolonged erotic arousal, laughter, and tears, combined with consistent spoken affirmations of who you are and why you're here on this Earth...

Book an Experience with me:


If you were hoping to have a session with me, the best way to do it is to follow the 3 steps above by going to my session pages, exploring my session options, and following the link to fill out my questionnaire. I'll receive your inquiry more quickly that way and will look really forward to it!

If you were wanting to contact me for another reason besides my sexually ecstatic session work, then you can use this contact form, bearing in mind that this is a slower way to contact me. Thanks for your patience! Brad.

Many teachers from many traditions have helped guide me, but what all gifted teachers have in common is that they teach us to find the gifts within ourselves which no one could ever teach us, but which are innately our gifts to be enjoyed and shared.

Today, I guide men into ecstatic, whole-body states of pleasure, and invite them to bring an intention for coming ever more fully into the awareness of who we are and why we're here.

I teach groups online and in person, but my primary--and favorite--way to reach men is by exciting the living fuck out of them, head to toe, while I speak their life's dreams, out loud...

More About What I Do:

The Pathway of Sexual Shamanism, Erotic Mysticism & Gay Sex Magic

I've introduced people from all walks of life to sexually-ecstatic pleasure, but my primary focus is on teaching men who have sex with men how to take their SEX lives to a whole new level.

Sexual FUN is one of the most joyful, delicious experiences human beings get to enjoy! My 35+ years as an ecstatic, joyful, uninhibited sexual being (starting all by myself in my bedroom from age 14 to 23) have taught me how to download the information, knowledge, and wisdom I need to inform my life and find my way.

What sets MAGICAL sex apart from so-called “ordinary” sex is that when I’m having an ecstatic sexual experience, fueled by intention, I always get a “download” to inform my life's course. Life-changing, mind-blowing sex is fueled by deep curiosity and a passionate desire to remember who we are and why we're remember our eternal connection to everything...


My Invitation to You:

Discover the Power of Embodied Pleasure

Experience the profound transformation that comes from embracing your sexual pleasure as a tool for healing, expression, and renewed vision. By way of my personalized ecstatic erotic sessions, group programs, and provocative audio-visual content, you'll embark on a journey of self-discovery, connection, and empowerment.

Explore the Depths of Your Pleasure

Discover the transformative potential of your own pleasure through immersive 1 on 1 sessions, empowering group programs, and provocative audio-visual content. Embrace a new level of wisdom, connection, and clarity of mind.

Embark on a Journey of Self-Discovery

Join a community of men from around the world and embark on a profound journey of self-discovery. By way of transformational sex coaching, you will harness the potency, power, and meaning of your own embodied pleasure for healing, expression, and renewed vision.

Unlock the Power of Pleasure

About Brad Amberheart

Brad Amberheart—Sex Coach & Evolutionarv Escort devotes his days and nights to finding every way possible to turn more men the fuck ON and--ultimately--create a world where horny, hungry MEN can connect with each other and live sexually-fulfilling lives. He has facilitated sex-play workshops worldwide and has worked as a sex coach on 10 film sets with Himeros TV to produce more than 120 erotic videos designed to shift the essence of porn toward creativity, empowerment and authenticity.