LOCATION

24 HAMPDEN Road, Asheville, NC 28805

Please arrive by no later than 12:45 PM to find parking (3 to 5 minutes' walk at most) so that we can start on time.

You're coming to the house with the green and red mailbox clearly numbered "24".

Welcome to Brad & Jimmy's home! Please come to the front door.

ARRIVAL 12:45 PM

Please arrive by 12:45 (no earlier than 12:40, please) to find parking, set down your things, settle in so we can start on time at 1:00 PM. The door will be locked shortly after 1:00 PM so we can build our container for fun and transformational play!

PARKING

Please only park on one side of the street, in one of the following 2 areas:

If it's important you park very close to the house, please arrive by 12:45 and park on the same side of the street as the house, uphill, toward Kingsgate.

If you don't mind walking 4 minutes, please arrive 12:40-12:45 PM and park along the Golf Course, along Kensington.

Here is a map with parking areas marked in bright green:

PHONES OFF OR IN AIRPLANE MODE

If you have a phone on you when you arrive, please set your phone to airplane mode or completely off when approaching the front door. Our friendly greeter will show you where to put them.

CLOTHING IS OPTIONAL

HOW TO GET READY

WHAT TO LEAVE AT HOME

• It's best to arrive nourished, but not overly full, so we recommend completing your evening meal an hour or more before you arrive. You may want to eat your 2nd supper or a snack after you get home. We will also be providing some simple snacks such as nuts and fruit.

• Please shower and get clean, but please refrain from using any anti-perspirants, deodorants, colognes, or other scented products so that we can enjoy connecting with each other with all of our senses.

• Please refrain from using any alcohol or recreational drugs before coming to this event. We would love for you to arrive clear as a bell and excited as hell!

Clothing is optional at all times. In fact, if you feel like leaving all or most of your clothes at the front door with your phones, keys, and other things, feel free!

Wear as little or as much as excites you (underwear, fully clothed, or birthday suit). Our friendly greeter will show you where to put any belongings you would like to leave behind at the door.

WHAT TO BRING

• Water Bottle

• Any snacks you may enjoy (we'll also be providing some)

• Sarong, Towel or something to sit on (we'll have some towels available as well)

• Clear Presence (free from the influence of alcohol or recreational drugs of any kind)

• Your nervousness (nervousness is often simply excitement in disguise)

• Open Heart, Open Mind, Gratitude

• Alcohol, Drugs, Poppers

• Judgements

PAYMENT/CREDITS

We're keeping our Asheville gatherings affordable. Your financial contribution supports us in organizing, facilitating, and even hosting this intimate event in our homes. We cannot offer any refunds, but if you should have the great misfortune of needing to cancel, if we're able to fill your spot with another lucky participant, we can likely offer you a credit for a future event or session.

Other FUN FAQ's

Men's Erotic Temple Play Space

Please Visit our Full Event Page & Original Invitation for a refresher on what prompted you to register for this event. We're also repeating some fun FAQ's from that page, right here...

Will there be guys there like me? No, there's no one in the world just like you!

You know what I mean...will there be guys who are fit like me, fat like me, thin like me, black like me, old like me, young like me...? There will be all kinds of excited, eager men there! ALL kinds!

What if I don't feel sexual? The #1 rule is "No one has to do anything here!". Once we're complete with our opening circle and demo, if you feel like sitting down, meditating, walking around and watching, or even reading a book for the rest of theevent, there's a place for you here. You'll probably be surprised how excited you feel when you realize that you absolutely don't have to do anything here! This is a place to put aside notions of "performance," and open to liberation and celebration.

What if I don't find anyone attractive? You can always leave at anytime, but if you're not finding anyone attractive, we suggest you might enjoy giving yourself pleasure. This temple play space represents an opportunity to broaden the spectrum of what we may (or may not) find "sexy" and to see if we might discover what it feels like to ask for what we really want, say "no" to what we don't want, and--ultimately--to find a source of sexiness and excitement in ourselves that is always there for us to enjoy, independently of what anyone else looks like, says, or does.

What if no one finds me attractive? You can always leave at anytime, but if it seems like no one wants to play with you, we might suggest you start looking for every way you can find to pleasure yourself. This temple play space is an opportunity to see if we might discover what it feels like to ask for what we really want, say "no" to what we don't want, and--ultimately--to find a source of sexiness and excitement in ourselves that is always there for us to enjoy, independently of what anyone else says or does.

Brad conducts an extended session of sacred intimacy with an eager participant during an experimental retreat that was captured on film at Easton Mountain, NY in 2018. Jerry's Sacred Intimate Session, HimerosTV

But you said there's no sucking, fucking, or cumming! What's left to do, and why would anyone want to come to a play party like THAT? The men who are coming to this temple play space are men who are READY for something overtly exciting and new, beyond our wildest dreams. There's a WEALTH of wonderful, life-giving, whole-body engagement for men who are willing to put aside old agendas and open to whole-body ecstatic pleasure. Allow us to guide you...

Can I bring poppers? No, sorry. Some people don't want to smell them, and there's always the risk of spilling them, which would be really unfortunate for the host. Besides, they're a substance, and we're experimenting with accessing the natural source of ecstatic pleasure and oneness that is available to all of us, at all times.

BRAD AMBERHEART