Ecstatic Sex Party Q & A

Is this a sex party? Yes, Definitely! It's a gathering of consenting adult men in a private home.

Is this an orgy? You could call it that, as long as you recognize that it's a special kind of orgy. Several things make it special: 1). It's drug and alcohol-free (no one under the influence). 2). Everyone here agrees to certain parameters around personal and mutual respect and 3) It's a lovingly-held container where everyone gets to explore their "fuck yes" as well as their "no thank you".

Will there be guys there like me? No, there's no one in the world just like you!

You know what I mean...will there be guys who are fit like me, fat like me, thin like me, black like me, old like me, young like me...? There will be all kinds of horny guys there!

What if I don't feel sexual? The #1 rule at a play party is "No one has to play". If you feel like sitting down, meditating, walking around and watching, or even reading a book, there's a place for you here. You'll probably be surprised how excited you feel when you realize that you absolutely don't have to do anything here!

What if I don't find anyone attractive? You can always leave at anytime, but if you're not finding anyone attractive, we suggest you might enjoy playing with yourself. This party is also an opportunity to broaden the spectrum of what we may (or may not) find "sexy" and to see if we might discover what it feels like to ask for what we really want, say "no" to what we don't want, and--ultimately--to find a source of sexiness and excitement in ourselves that is always there for us to enjoy, independently of what anyone else looks like, says, or does.

What if no one finds me attractive? You can always leave at anytime, but if it seems like no one wants to play with you, we might suggest you start enjoying playing with yourself. This party is also an opportunity to see if we might discover what it feels like to ask for what we really want, say "no" to what we don't want, and--ultimately--to find a source of sexiness and excitement in ourselves that is always there for us to enjoy, independently of what anyone else says, or does.

Can I bring poppers? No, sorry. Some people don't want to smell them, and there's always the risk of spilling them, which would be really unfortunate for the host. Besides, they're a substance, and we're experimenting with accessing the natural source of sexual ecstasy we all carry in our very core.

SPECIFICS

Where?

When?

Who?

What?

How?

Private Residence, Asheville. Address given upon paid registration

Follow this link to register for the party! You'll receive a confirmation email with location and other fun preparation details.

A facilitated, ecstatic erotic and sexual play party for penis-clad, kind, respectful horny fuckers.

When the time is just right! TBA, regularly

A group of 7 to 27 consenting adult males (18 to as old-as-you-can-get) and YOU, enjoying the living fuck out of ourselves by asking for what we want and finding our "fuck yes" and our "no thanks".

What Makes This Sex Party "Ecstatic"?

Short Answer: You do!

I've been working as an escort and sacred intimate for nearly 20 years. Every day, I read answers that men send me from my questionnaire, "10 Questions to Activate Sexually Ecstatic Pleasure & Erotic Fun". I ask them about their current level of sexual fulfillment in their lives. The answers vary widely, from 1 to 10, but most men--on a scale of 1 to 10 (with 10 being "over-the-fucking-top" and 1 being "absolutely terrible)--rank their current level of sexual fulfillment somewhere between 2 and 6.

I also ask them if they've ever had a sexual experience that they would consider "ecstatic". Believe it or not, the vast majority say "No, never".

So what is a "sexually ecstatic experience," especially when we eliminate drugs from the equation.

You are the only one who can define what "sexually ecstatic" means to you, but if you're curious about my definition, it goes something like this:

A Sexually Ecstatic Experience (SEE) is one in which I lose touch with my everyday, so-called "ordinary" reality, and begin to experience something extra-ordinary. My body gets flooded with a head-to-toe sensation of "I-don't-give-a-flying-fuck-how-loud-I-scream-or-what-my-fuck-face-looks-like"! I lose touch with thoughts, reason, or belief, and surrender into a state which feels like endless laughter.

We're back to our thoughts. We may even be jumping up, yanking up our pants, Monica-Lewinski-stain-and-all, rushing out the door to "get back to the (oval) office"...

CUM feels good. But it cums...and then it's gone.

So SEXUAL ECSTASY...yes...we love it! We knew what it felt like the first time we shot a load in our jockey bikini briefs in 7th grade (at least I did!). But...could we keep this sensation of whole-body cathartic, cum-jerking let-go for a little longer?

SEXUAL ECSTASY, I'm proposing, is what happens when we begin to allow ourselves to experience the joy and freedom of getting off--and getting turned-the-fuck-ON--with other men!

What's it like to get turned-the-fuck on...and stay that way for awhile? Could we experience an orgasm that never ends?

Let's do it! I'm going to show you some of my favorite whole-body orgasmic sex tricks. Please come to my "Daddy's Big Toolbox" workshop before the play party so I can tell you some secrets (and have a fuck-load of fun with you all before the party). That way, there may be enough of us at the party to carry the "critical mass" it takes for rolling, cathartic, whole-body ecstatic sexual pleasure...without drugs.

Loving You All, and So Excited This is Happening!

Brad-Dad

Does it sound like I'm describing an orgasm? YES! In that respect, if we've ever shot a load of cum, we have ALL had a "sexually ecstatic experience". For an instant (at least) we lose touch with the endlessly-calculating mind and the part of us who wants to censor our voice, our expression, our lust...and we return to that wonderful, indescribable place of primal instinct, where the rules, the thoughts, and the self-censorship dissolve into...a deluge of cum...

And then...